tanisstewart

Hi everyone, I have a myspace if anyone has one, request me! Here is the link….

http://www.myspace.com/tanisstewart 

Ok guys I need help. I am really not sure what to do and it is weighing heavy on my heart. When this stuff happens I end up just emotionally eatting everything. Which I did last night and its not a good thing. Anyway, here is the situation.

I have a very good friend that this family adopted about 5 1/2 years ago. She is older than me and my husband she is actually my dad’s age. She is a truck driver and never really has had a home so when she has time off like 2 -3 days at a time we let her stay here. But not for weeks or more at a time. We live in a very very small house. So she ends up sleeping in the living room.  About 2 years ago her blood pressure went up and they took her off the truck she had to see a cardiac dr. She said she would only be here a few days and it ended up being over 2 months.  Well, same thing happened yesterday.  She has to have somewhere to stay. I told her she could stay here a few days but I am so afraid it will turn into months. Her son lives about 40 miles from here. But he said she could only stay there as a last resort. He has a live in girlfriend but no kids to worry about.  I have 2 kids, 7 & 3.  And no extra room in this house. Am I being a horrible, terrible friend? It just seems to turn my house upside down. She is a drama lover and seems to create this huge amount of drama. What in the world should I do? I hate being put in this situation. 

Ok. I need help and I hope someone out there has a solution. This is not a weighloss problem but I am at my wits end and I really don’t know what else to do. My son started first grade this year. He has always loved school and he did at the first of this year. Our school year started August 6. The first few weeks went great. But about 4 weeks ago or so his stomach started to hurt every night and every morning. This went on then about 3 weeks ago he has started to cry. So I sent the teacher an email we got together with the counselor and she said he has a lot of friends no problems with them, no problems with his work. He is in AC classes. (Accelerated) No problems at all with that. The problem we think is he is pushing himself where he thinks he can’t get anything wrong. (First grade is a lot different now days than when I was in school) We aren’t pushing him we have just tried to teach him to work hard and do the best he can do.  The teachers feel that this is something that he is doing to himself.  My husband and I have talked to him, the teachers have talked to him, the counselor and even his grandmother.  This has been a week and he is still crying not wanting to go to school. It is making it so hard on me. I am to the point I don’t want to get up in the mornings. I know the ordeal we are going to go through. If I feel this way I can only imagine how he feel. My goodness he is only 6 years old. I just don’t know what else to do for him. I hope someone has some ideas. I am clueless. I have done everything I know to do. I just keep encouraging him. Letting him know that we are behind him. The Dr yesterday put him on Zantac 75 for 2 weeks to see if that will help him anyway. But noone really has any ideas what else to do. Thank you for listening. :0)

The HotRod team is looking for a few motivated players. If you are interested let me know!!

Just wanted to say Good Monday Morning to all you buddyslimmers. I hope everyone has a fantastic day!! :0) (Not sure where the smilies are!!) I promised myself this is going to be a happy week.  So far So Good!!

I need some help. Im not too sure whats wrong with me. This is going on the 3rd week that I just feel so drained. Im making sure I eat right and exercising but I just have no get up and go. I am pushing myself through my walks and my challanges.  I just don’t feel good. I can’t really put my finger on it. Can anyone help??

I have a layout question. Not too sure what I did wrong. When I first came to buddyslim I had done my layout. Now after months of looking at the same one I decided to change it today. So I did just that. It says to hit F5 to refresh the wahla - NOTHING happened. My screen is just white.  What do I do now? Or does it take a while to change? Help please!! My home page is now BLAH!!!

Anyone know why all the old blogs are popping out?? But just wanted to say thanks to Angela!! I couldn’t figure out why I couldn’t blog!! You are genius!!

Well everyone knows I have been fighting these last few pounds for months. I finally had gotten fed up because I am doing everything I am supposed to do. Keeping my points to a T, exercising, water etc… Will these pounds budge? No. I have gotten so frustrated I went to the Dr. He said that sometimes due to age and 2 children I probably would not reach my pre-pregnancy weight again. WHY NOT??  Thats all he really said. Does anyone know if this is true? I have fought and fought with this weight. I feel like I made it this far why can’t I reach my goal. But at this time I feel completely defeated!!   If thats not bad enough my dreaded sister in law is in on it. We were dieting at the same time and she reached her goal plus. She is 37 and also two children same ages and she is down to 118. How the heck does she do it?? She is sure to rub it in my face I did it……I did It!! UGH!!!

I feel like I ran a race and stopped right before the finish line. Do I just change my goal and be satisfied? Not sure what else to do. If anyone has any ideas please let me know.

I have got a question that hopefully someone can help me….

I somehow got a virus on my computer. We have a antivirus blocker on the computer and it keeps saying it was deleted but it’s not. It keeps sending all these pop ups on my computer and making it impossible to get on here. What can I do??

Everyone be careful I got the virus by either putting the pictures on here or by the Hoodia thing on the home page. I honostly think it was the Hoodia thing but not 100%.

If anyone can please tell me what to do I would really appreciate it!! I can NOT live without my computer!!!